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From: Johannes Schindelin <Johannes.Schindelin@gmx.de>
To: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>
Cc: "Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason" <avarab@gmail.com>,
	"brian m. carlson" <sandals@crustytoothpaste.net>,
	"Felipe Contreras" <felipe.contreras@gmail.com>,
	"Derrick Stolee" <stolee@gmail.com>,
	"Bagas Sanjaya" <bagasdotme@gmail.com>,
	"Lénaïc Huard" <lenaic@lhuard.fr>,
	git@vger.kernel.org, "Derrick Stolee" <dstolee@microsoft.com>,
	"Eric Sunshine" <sunshine@sunshineco.com>,
	"Đoàn Trần Công Danh" <congdanhqx@gmail.com>,
	"Phillip Wood" <phillip.wood123@gmail.com>,
	"Martin Ågren" <martin.agren@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: [PATCH v3 4/4] maintenance: optionally use systemd timers on Linux
Date: Tue, 25 May 2021 03:50:08 +0200 (CEST)	[thread overview]
Message-ID: <nycvar.QRO.7.76.6.2105250327550.57@tvgsbejvaqbjf.bet> (raw)
In-Reply-To: <xmqqim38jfja.fsf@gitster.g>

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Hi,

On Tue, 25 May 2021, Junio C Hamano wrote:

> Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason <avarab@gmail.com> writes:
>
> > Personally I don't care whether someone submits a patch where their
> > commit message discusses an example of "he", "she", "they", "it" or
> > whatever. It's just meant as an example, and not some statement about
> > what the gender (or lack thereof) of such a user *should* be.
> >
> > It's immediately obvious what the author meant in this case, and that
> > the particular wording is arbitrary. For the purposes of discussing the
> > contribution it matters whether it's unclear or ambiguous, which it's
> > not.
>
> Nicely put.  Thanks.

_Personally_ I don't care either. Because I am exactly in that group of
young, Caucasian male developers that are so highly overrepresented in our
community already. I will never have a problem thinking that I don't
belong here. I never had that problem.

And I believe that you, Ævar, are very much in the same boat. You will
never feel as if you don't belong in tech. You're Caucasian, male, and
like me, come with an abundance of confidence.

Now, let's go for a little thought experiment. Let's pretend for a moment
that we lacked that confidence. That we were trying to enter a community
with almost no male members at all. Where an email thread was going on
about inviting us to join, using no male pronouns, or putting them last.
And remember: no confidence, no representation. Now, would you dare
chiming in, offering myself as a target? I know I wouldn't. Yet that's
exactly the atmosphere we're fostering here.

What you say, matters. _How_ you say it, matters.

In other words, I think that the _personal_ opinions of everybody who
spoke up in this mail thread (you might have noticed that all of us are
male, you could even call it a "male thread") are not the problem we are
discussing. Personal opinions are kind of missing the point here. By a
mile. And then some.

The actual point is that we want to avoid giving the impression that
only people who feel included by the pronoun "he" are invited. That we
only really care about male users and developers, and pay only scant
tribute to the rest.

And yes, even "he/she", or "(s)he" would give that impression, by
emphasizing a priority order. And "they" simply would not do that. And if
it makes a few male readers slightly uncomfortable, it might present a
fine opportunity to exercise some empathy with those who feel
uncomfortable and excluded all the time.

Thank you,
Johannes

  reply	other threads:[~2021-05-25  9:18 UTC|newest]

Thread overview: 138+ messages / expand[flat|nested]  mbox.gz  Atom feed  top
2021-05-01 14:52 [PATCH] maintenance: use systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-01 20:02 ` brian m. carlson
2021-05-02  5:28 ` Bagas Sanjaya
2021-05-02  6:49   ` Eric Sunshine
2021-05-02  6:45 ` Eric Sunshine
2021-05-02 14:10   ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-05 12:19     ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-05 14:57       ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-05 12:01   ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-05-09 22:34     ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-10 13:03       ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-05-02 11:12 ` Bagas Sanjaya
2021-05-03 12:04 ` Derrick Stolee
2021-05-09 21:32 ` [PATCH v2 0/1] " Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-09 21:32   ` [PATCH v2 1/1] " Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-10  1:20     ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-10  2:48       ` Eric Sunshine
2021-05-10  6:25         ` Junio C Hamano
2021-05-12  0:29           ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-12  6:59             ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-12 13:26               ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-12 13:38             ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-12 15:41               ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-10 18:03     ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-10 18:25       ` Eric Sunshine
2021-05-10 20:09         ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-10 20:52           ` Eric Sunshine
2021-06-08 14:55       ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-10 19:15     ` Martin Ågren
2021-05-11 14:50     ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-11 17:31     ` Derrick Stolee
2021-05-20 22:13   ` [PATCH v3 0/4] " Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-20 22:13     ` [PATCH v3 1/4] cache.h: rename "xdg_config_home" to "xdg_config_home_git" Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-20 23:44       ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-20 22:13     ` [PATCH v3 2/4] maintenance: introduce ENABLE/DISABLE for code clarity Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-20 22:13     ` [PATCH v3 3/4] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-21  9:52       ` Bagas Sanjaya
2021-05-20 22:13     ` [PATCH v3 4/4] maintenance: optionally use systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-21  9:59       ` Bagas Sanjaya
2021-05-21 16:59         ` Derrick Stolee
2021-05-22  6:57           ` Johannes Schindelin
2021-05-23 18:36             ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-23 23:27               ` brian m. carlson
2021-05-24  1:18                 ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-24  7:03                 ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-05-24 15:51                   ` Junio C Hamano
2021-05-25  1:50                     ` Johannes Schindelin [this message]
2021-05-25 11:13                       ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-26 10:29                       ` CoC, inclusivity etc. (was "Re: [...] systemd timers on Linux") Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-05-26 16:05                         ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-27 14:24                         ` Jeff King
2021-05-27 17:30                           ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-27 23:58                           ` Junio C Hamano
2021-05-28 14:44                           ` Phillip Susi
2021-05-30 21:58                             ` Jeff King
2021-05-24 17:52                   ` [PATCH v3 4/4] maintenance: optionally use systemd timers on Linux Felipe Contreras
2021-05-24  7:15     ` [PATCH v4 0/4] add support for " Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-24  7:15       ` [PATCH v4 1/4] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-24  9:33         ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-24 12:23           ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-24  7:15       ` [PATCH v4 2/4] maintenance: introduce ENABLE/DISABLE for code clarity Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-24  9:41         ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-24 12:36           ` Đoàn Trần Công Danh
2021-05-25  7:18             ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-25  8:02               ` Junio C Hamano
2021-05-24  9:47         ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-05-24  7:15       ` [PATCH v4 3/4] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-24 10:12         ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-30  6:39           ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-30 10:16             ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-24  7:15       ` [PATCH v4 4/4] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-05-24  9:55         ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-05-24 16:39           ` Eric Sunshine
2021-05-24 18:08         ` Felipe Contreras
2021-05-26 10:26         ` Phillip Wood
2021-05-24  9:04       ` [PATCH v4 0/4] " Junio C Hamano
2021-06-08 13:39       ` [PATCH v5 0/3] " Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-08 13:39         ` [PATCH v5 1/3] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-08 13:39         ` [PATCH v5 2/3] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-08 13:40         ` [PATCH v5 3/3] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-09  9:34           ` Jeff King
2021-06-09 15:01           ` Phillip Wood
2021-06-09  0:21         ` [PATCH v5 0/3] " Junio C Hamano
2021-06-09 14:54         ` Phillip Wood
2021-06-12 16:50         ` [PATCH v6 0/3] maintenance: " Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-12 16:50           ` [PATCH v6 1/3] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-12 16:50           ` [PATCH v6 2/3] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-14  4:36             ` Eric Sunshine
2021-06-16 18:12               ` Derrick Stolee
2021-06-17  4:11                 ` Eric Sunshine
2021-06-17 14:26               ` Phillip Wood
2021-07-02 15:04               ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-06-12 16:50           ` [PATCH v6 3/3] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-07-02 14:25           ` [PATCH v7 0/3] " Lénaïc Huard
2021-07-02 14:25             ` [PATCH v7 1/3] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-07-02 14:25             ` [PATCH v7 2/3] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-07-06 19:56               ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-07-06 20:52                 ` Junio C Hamano
2021-07-13  0:15                   ` Jeff King
2021-07-13  2:22                     ` Eric Sunshine
2021-07-13  3:56                       ` Jeff King
2021-07-13  5:17                         ` Eric Sunshine
2021-07-13  7:04                       ` Bagas Sanjaya
2021-07-06 21:18                 ` Felipe Contreras
2021-08-23 20:06                 ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-23 22:30                   ` Junio C Hamano
2021-07-02 14:25             ` [PATCH v7 3/3] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-07-06 20:03               ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-07-02 18:18             ` [PATCH v7 0/3] " Junio C Hamano
2021-07-06 13:18             ` Phillip Wood
2021-08-23 20:40             ` [PATCH v8 " Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-23 20:40               ` [PATCH v8 1/3] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-23 20:40               ` [PATCH v8 2/3] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-24 17:45                 ` Derrick Stolee
2021-08-23 20:40               ` [PATCH v8 3/3] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-24 17:45                 ` Derrick Stolee
2021-08-24 17:47               ` [PATCH v8 0/3] " Derrick Stolee
2021-08-27 21:02               ` [PATCH v9 " Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-27 21:02                 ` [PATCH v9 1/3] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-27 21:02                 ` [PATCH v9 2/3] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-27 23:54                   ` Ramsay Jones
2021-08-27 21:02                 ` [PATCH v9 3/3] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-09-04 20:54                 ` [PATCH v10 0/3] " Lénaïc Huard
2021-09-04 20:54                   ` [PATCH v10 1/3] cache.h: Introduce a generic "xdg_config_home_for(…)" function Lénaïc Huard
2021-09-04 20:54                   ` [PATCH v10 2/3] maintenance: `git maintenance run` learned `--scheduler=<scheduler>` Lénaïc Huard
2021-09-04 20:55                   ` [PATCH v10 3/3] maintenance: add support for systemd timers on Linux Lénaïc Huard
2021-09-07 16:48                   ` [PATCH v10 0/3] " Derrick Stolee
2021-09-08 11:44                     ` Derrick Stolee
2021-09-09  5:52                       ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-09-09 19:55                         ` Derrick Stolee
2021-09-27 12:50                           ` Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason
2021-09-27 21:44                             ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-17 17:22         ` [PATCH v5 0/3] " Derrick Stolee
2021-08-17 19:43           ` Phillip Wood
2021-08-17 20:29             ` Derrick Stolee
2021-08-18  5:56           ` Lénaïc Huard
2021-08-18 13:28             ` Derrick Stolee
2021-08-18 18:23               ` Junio C Hamano

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